Kidman Begged Her Husband Not to Divorce — We Know His Decision!
10 Oct 2025Recently, Hollywood was shaken by the news: Nicole Kidman announced her split from her husband, singer and musician Keith Urban. Their union had always been considered one of the strongest — a beautiful actress and a talented rocker, hand in hand on red carpets, family photos, shared children… It seemed that these two had been through everything. But, as it turned out, even the perfect picture can crack… We are sure that the details of their story, as well as the whole truth about Nicole Kidman, will definitely surprise you!
Everything Started With… Erotica?
According to Page Six insiders, the real problems in the marriage allegedly began after the release of the erotic film Babygirl, in which 58-year-old Nicole Kidman played a married woman cheating on her husband with a young intern. The film supposedly caused a storm of emotions not only among viewers but also for Urban himself…
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“Keith didn’t like the film. He was against Nicole taking part in explicit scenes, and especially against her actively promoting this work afterward,” shared an insider close to the couple in a conversation with Page Six.
Jealousy Or Disappointment?
According to sources, the 57-year-old musician allegedly could not calmly watch as friends and colleagues discussed the film and drew parallels with their personal life. After all, the plot suspiciously resembled a story “about a married woman and a young lover.”

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For Urban, this supposedly was a blow — writes Page Six. He seemed to see in the film a reflection of his own fears — losing his wife, to whom he had been attached for almost two decades…
Attempts To Save Love
According to the publication, Kidman tried to save the family: they attended couples therapy, took breaks from work, went on vacations together.
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But, according to sources, Keith insisted on a divorce. He seemed to have already made a decision he was not going to back away from. But rumors appeared that something else, or rather someone else, might have been the reason for the divorce…
A New Woman In Urban’s Life?
According to TMZ, the musician allegedly already has a new love interest — a 25-year-old guitarist from his own band named Maggie. Allegedly, the pair became very close during the tour, and now they are increasingly seen together not only on stage… moreover, it is rumored that he cheated on Nicole with her even before deciding on the divorce.

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So maybe accusing her of appearing in an erotic film was just a cover-up? Who knows… it all looks ambiguous, doesn’t it?
Nicole Is Devastated But Holding On
Earlier, TMZ sources reported that Nicole Kidman is “devastated” by rumors of her husband’s affair. The actress allegedly refused to believe that it was over and hoped for reconciliation. But it seems the situation is irreversible. What really caused the divorce — the film, jealousy, or a new woman in Urban’s life?
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For now, both sides remain silent, while fans continue to hope that this is just a temporary crisis in the star couple’s life. But something seems to have gone too far… we will definitely talk more about Nicole’s love story, and not only with Keith Urban… but for now, let’s remember how it all began!
Born In “Paradise”
The future Hollywood star was born in Honolulu, Hawaii, the place most people in the world dream of visiting! Imagine — coconuts, the sea, eternal summer, and a little red-haired girl destined to conquer the world.

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But the Kidman family didn’t stay there long. Nicole’s parents were Australians who happened to be in the US for work. When the little girl turned three, they packed their bags and returned home — to Sydney. That’s how the story of the Australian actress who was born in America but always considered Australia her true homeland began.
A Smart Family And Strict Parents
Nicole’s father, Anthony David Kidman, was not just a scientist — he worked in biochemistry, clinical psychology, and even wrote scientific books. Her mother, Janelle Ann Kidman, taught nursing and participated in women’s community organizations, advocating for women’s rights.

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The Kidman household was filled with bookshelves, intellectual conversations, and strict discipline. The TV was rarely on but important topics were discussed — from education to philosophy. It was in this environment that Nicole grew up — sensitive, observant, and a little dreamy.
Ballet, Stage, And A Dream Of Creativity
When Nicole was only four, her parents enrolled her in ballet school. From the very first days, the girl loved music and the stage. But over time it became clear — dancing alone wasn’t enough. She wanted to act, to transform, to feel emotions in front of an audience.

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Since then, Nicole began attending a children’s theater studio. And a decisive moment came with the film The Wizard of Oz. After watching it, she literally said, “I want to go there too — into the movies, where miracles happen!”
Teased But Not Broken
At school, Nicole often felt like an outsider. Classmates teased her for her tall height and thick red curls, as Daily Mail writes. After all this, young Nicole felt that she was “too noticeable.”
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But over the years, these traits became her signature look. Later, she even joked that her school insecurities made her stronger than any acting workshop.
Close Relationships With Her Parents
Although Nicole’s parents were far from the creative world, they always understood and supported her. Nicole Kidman repeatedly admitted that the closest person in her life was her father, Anthony Kidman. She always spoke about him with special warmth…

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“He is a wonderful man. A real father you can rely on at any moment,” the actress told The Daily Mail. “I could call him even at three in the morning, and he would always listen. Without reproach, without irritation, just with love.”
A Father You Can Always Rely On
When Nicole, as a teenager, decided to try writing, he was the first to notice her talent. “At that time, I got really into writing, and he suggested I consider a career in journalism,” the actress recalled to Daily Mail. “I started keeping a diary, and I still do. I have whole notebooks filled with thoughts, notes, stories. That’s probably my way of talking to myself.”
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Such words are rare in the world of stars, where parent-child relationships often remain tense.
The Power of Family
Nicole also always had incredibly warm relations with her mother but one day the family faced a tragedy… When Nicole was 17, her mother was seriously ill with breast cancer. The family faced financial difficulties, and the girl dropped out of school to help her parents — writes TMZ. She got a job as a massage therapist while caring for her mother — and for the first time truly felt that life was not always like a movie.
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But it was at that moment that her inner resilience appeared — the one that would later earn her respect from colleagues and fans all over the world.
Sisterly Support
During difficult times, Nicole was never alone. She has a younger sister, Antonia Kidman, who went a different path and became a journalist and TV host. But the sisters have always been incredibly close.

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Antonia is the only person Nicole trusts completely. She remains the place Nicole returns to after shoots and red carpets — the true “home,” the actress admits.
Young Nicole Took Australia By Storm
In 1983, Nicole Kidman first really made her mark — appearing in the remake of the Australian film Christmas in the Bush. It seemed like a small project but attention on her was instant. Everyone saw something special in Nicole…

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Just five years later, in 1988, she was playing the lead in Emerald City. This role was an important step forward — she proved she could hold viewers’ attention and gained critical recognition. Nicole received the Australian Film Institute Award for the role, and from that moment it was clear: here was a new star.
Shy In Life, Brave On Screen
In life, Nicole remained quite shy, even a bit modest. But once the camera turned on, a different person emerged. In 1986, she starred in Windrider, a role that included some bold scenes. The film sparked controversy — some scenes were so explicit that even the director later admitted, “Maybe we went a little too far.”
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Nicole handled the criticism calmly. She said she was ready for the role and did not regret her choice. Moreover, this film strongly affected Nicole psychologically — and here’s how.
The Film Was Better Than A Therapist
The actress later recalled that the film helped her overcome insecurity and understand how important it is not to be afraid of vulnerability on screen, writes Daily Mail.

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Moreover, during filming, she began a relationship with her co-star Tom Burlison. At first, they just communicated as colleagues but gradually a romance developed. They were together for a while but later their paths diverged — Nicole began a completely new chapter. And even in that chapter, there were romances…
Boldness Instead Of Romance
Although her refined appearance could have made her a delicate romantic heroine, fate chose another path. Her first truly internationally recognized work was the thriller Dead Calm (1989) with Sam Neill and Billy Zane. Most of the action took place on a yacht in the middle of the ocean — the tension was so intense that viewers could barely breathe.

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After that, Nicole was seen not just as a talented actress but as a true star. That same year, she starred in the mini-series Bangkok Hilton, which became a hit and brought her worldwide fame. After this role, offers poured in one after another, and her road to Hollywood was open.
A Ten-Year Love And Three Films
Nicole continued conquering Hollywood. On the set of Days of Thunder in 1990, she met Tom Cruise. The chemistry between them was instant — visible even through the screen. Their union was discussed in every magazine: a beautiful, talented, ambitious couple — it seemed like a perfect story.

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Later, they starred together in two more films — the romantic drama Far and Away and Stanley Kubrick’s final film Eyes Wide Shut. But beyond films, emotions in their real life were just as intense — literally from the very start of their romance…
He Was Already a World Star, and She Was Just Getting Started
At the time they met, Tom Cruise was 28, and his career was skyrocketing. He had already become a public favorite and one of the most sought-after actors in Hollywood. Nicole Kidman, on the other hand, was famous back home in Australia but was only taking her first steps in American cinema — a 23-year-old with fiery curls and a mysterious smile, still very much a newcomer in Hollywood.
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Director Tony Scott completely trusted Cruise — not only as an actor but also as someone with impeccable intuition. He even took Tom’s opinion into account when choosing his co-stars…
“I’m Too Tall for Him…”
When Nicole came to audition for Days of Thunder and saw Tom, her first thought was — “They definitely won’t take me,” she later confessed to ELLE. She seemed too tall for the lead actor, as Cruise was noticeably shorter. But, as it turned out, that didn’t matter at all.
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Tom, upon seeing Nicole, completely lost his head… As TMZ writes, he later admitted that he felt the spark the very moment their eyes met. “I just saw her — and that was it. It was instant,” he said in an interview. And of course, Nicole got the role.
Love at First Sight
Their romance began almost immediately. Between takes, during quiet talks behind the scenes — everything felt so natural, as if they had known each other their whole lives. The two didn’t hide their feelings; on the contrary, their chemistry was so intense that you could feel it even through the screen.
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At that time, Cruise was still married to actress Mimi Rogers, who was older than him and had her own successful career. As Daily Mail wrote, their marriage had already been falling apart for some time, so the divorce was finalized quickly and quietly.
A Christmas Wedding
In December 1990, just before Christmas, Tom and Nicole officially became husband and wife. They got married far from Hollywood, then escaped to a cozy ski resort in Colorado.

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Cruise was madly in love with his wife — showering her with gifts, attention, and compliments. In one interview, he admitted that at first, it was pure passion but soon he realized their connection went much deeper. “After getting to know her, I felt trust — and that’s what a real marriage is built on,” he said.
“We’re Like One Person”
A year later, Nicole told People magazine that sometimes she felt like she and Tom were one person. “Sometimes I think we’re one being. We’re so close that even our thoughts are alike,” the actress shared.

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The couple was inseparable — appearing together at premieres, traveling together, even filming together. Tom once said the longest time he had ever been apart from Nicole was “twelve excruciating days.”
The Trial of Family Life
Naturally, the next step in their love story was the dream of having children. But fate had other plans. Shortly after the wedding, Nicole suffered an ectopic pregnancy — a devastating loss, according to Daily Mail.

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In 1992, the couple adopted a baby girl, Isabella Jane, and three years later, in 1995, they adopted a boy, Connor Anthony. Their family looked perfect: a cozy home, thriving careers, two children, and mutual love. But not everyone liked their idyllic image…
Scandalous Rumors and Court Battles
In 1995, Daily Express published an article claiming that the couple’s lack of biological children was due to Tom’s alleged hidden sexuality, and that Nicole was merely a “cover.”
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The rumor spread worldwide — but the actors didn’t stay silent. They sued the paper — and won. It was their joint victory and proof that they wouldn’t tolerate lies about their family.
Did Nicole Suffer from Her Husband’s Fame?
As Us Weekly wrote, Tom Cruise later admitted that life as his wife wasn’t easy for Nicole. She often lived in his shadow, getting fewer major roles despite her enormous talent and potential.

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Maybe that’s why, in ten years of marriage, they starred together in only three films — their careers were moving at very different speeds.
Scientology and Conflicts of Faith
Another rumored source of tension was Tom’s involvement in the Church of Scientology, as TMZ reported. According to some accounts, the religion placed great emphasis on family and children, and Nicole’s inability to give Tom a biological heir became a sore point.

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She allegedly tried to embrace her husband’s faith and even joined the church — but, insiders claimed, she often doubted that it was the right path...
The Film That Changed Everything
In 1998, the couple moved to London and bought a luxurious $3 million mansion. Soon after, they were offered the leading roles in Stanley Kubrick’s Eyes Wide Shut. It was impossible to say no to a genius like Kubrick.

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The filming process turned out to be long and emotionally exhausting. Rumors circulated that the couple even consulted a sex therapist to better understand their roles and preserve their real-life relationship. But the tension grew, and many later claimed that Eyes Wide Shut became the beginning of the end for their marriage…
Private Life Under Threat
At the same time, Tom sued a journalist who had published their private phone call — one in which they were heard arguing. Although Cruise won the case, the public began to suspect that their marriage was far from perfect.
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And in 2001, the shocking news broke: Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman were getting divorced!
A Beautiful Love Story — and Divorce
As Daily Mail wrote, Nicole said the news came as a complete shock — especially since Tom was the one who initiated it. Then came the legal drama — had they really been married for a full ten years? It mattered because, under their prenuptial agreement, Kidman would receive a large settlement if they had been married that long.

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Moreover, in an interview with Tatler, Nicole revealed that she suffered a miscarriage shortly before the divorce… In the end, the split was finalized: the assets were divided, and their children — who had embraced Tom’s Scientology beliefs — stayed with him. Soon after, Tom began a new romance with Penélope Cruz.
A New Chapter in Her Life
After ten years of love, fights, rumors, and media pressure, Nicole suddenly found herself alone. But as she later admitted to Tatler, that solitude became a turning point. At first, she was devastated. As TMZ wrote, she confessed that she felt lost and overwhelmed by the sudden silence after years of public life.
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“I thought it was all over — my career, my personal life,” she said in an interview. But that was when she found the inner strength that would later make her one of the most respected women in Hollywood. She came back — and triumphed.
A Second Wind
After the divorce, Nicole threw herself into her work. Just a year later, she landed the role that changed everything.

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In 2002, she played Virginia Woolf in The Hours — and won an Oscar. That victory wasn’t just professional recognition — it symbolized her rebirth as an independent star, no longer defined by her famous ex-husband.
And Then — Even More Success!
More major roles followed: Moulin Rouge!, Cold Mountain, Dogville, The Departed. Kidman seemed unstoppable — working in Europe, Australia, and Hollywood, choosing not commercial blockbusters but deep, emotionally complex stories that revealed her as a true artist.

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Nicole never chose the easy way. In the 2000s, she experimented boldly: Lars von Trier’s philosophical Dogville (2003), the chilling thriller The Others (2001), the epic Australia (2008). Each role was a new challenge — and she met them all with grace and power.
From Actress to Producer
By the late 2010s, Kidman was no longer just an actress — she was a powerhouse producer. Her company, Blossom Films, launched several acclaimed projects: Big Little Lies, Sharp Objects, and The Undoing.

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These shows won Emmys and Golden Globes, proving once again that Nicole Kidman had evolved into one of the most influential women in Hollywood.
Big Little Lies Is Coming Back!
Fans can rejoice — the show once thought “permanently closed” is making a comeback! HBO has officially confirmed that Season 3 of Big Little Lies is in development. David E. Kelley, Reese Witherspoon, and of course, Nicole Kidman are all returning as executive producers.
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According to insiders, all the main actresses are in talks to return — meaning fans might soon see the long-awaited reunion of the “Monterey Five.” Plot details are still under wraps but sources hint that the new story will pick up several years after Season 2 — with “new truths behind new lies.” And that sounds more intriguing than ever!
Why Nicole Completely Changed Her Life
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As Us Weekly wrote, after filming The Portrait of a Lady, the actress admitted she was on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Her character, Isabel Archer, endured humiliation and emotional pain — and Nicole lived through it with her. So deeply, in fact, that the filming ended in complete burnout.
Physical Suffering For The Sake Of Art
To restore her emotional balance, Kidman took a break and turned down several major movie offers... Physically, the project was also grueling: to achieve authenticity, the actress wore a corset that tightened her waist down to 48 centimeters!

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She later confessed that sometimes she could hardly breathe but was willing to endure it for the sake of art...
From Actress To Symbol
Critics note that in her mature years, Nicole began taking on deeper, more complex roles — women with trauma, secrets, and inner strength. Her characters were no longer perfect, and that made them even more fascinating.

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After the #MeToo movement, the actress openly stated that she now deliberately chooses projects where women play key creative roles. Her production company, Blossom Films, actively supports female directors, writers, and fresh voices where women are in charge.
Goodwill Ambassador And “Citizen Of The World”
Outside of cinema, Kidman is deeply involved in philanthropy. She is a UN Goodwill Ambassador and a representative of UNIFEM, an organization fighting for women’s rights around the globe. Nicole doesn’t just donate money — she personally participates in humanitarian missions, visits crisis regions, and helps organizations that protect victims of violence.
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For her active social work, she was given the title “Citizen of the World.” Helping children also holds a special place in her life. When the actress married musician Keith Urban, the couple asked wedding guests not to bring gifts but instead to donate money to charities helping sick children.
Her Secret Hobby — Writing
Despite her busy schedule, Nicole somehow finds time for her hobbies! Few people know that one of her most personal passions is writing. Her father taught her this early on, encouraging her to keep a journal — as we’ve mentioned before.

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Over time, Kidman started writing short stories and essays. In her own words, “It’s a way to understand myself.” Today, she already has a collection of writings she hopes to publish someday. Well, we’ll be waiting — after all, they say talented people are talented in everything.
She Broke An Incredible Record
Even in advertising, Nicole Kidman managed to make history. In 2004, she starred in the iconic commercial for Chanel No. 5, directed by Baz Luhrmann — the same director who gave her Moulin Rouge! The luxurious four-minute film became the most expensive commercial project of its time. For her role, Kidman earned $3.71 million, which landed her in the Guinness World Records as the actress with the highest fee for a short commercial.
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And today, Nicole Kidman remains one of the wealthiest and most influential actresses in the world — her fortune is estimated at over $250 million. Yet, as they say, even the rich have their heartbreaks.
Moments When Even Money Can’t Heal The Soul
Despite her immense wealth and brilliant career, Nicole is now going through a challenging period — a separation from the man she’s been with for nearly 20 years... And of course, we can’t help but remember how passionately it all began.

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The actress has often said that she found her ideal man, while Keith once declared, “My wife is in every one of my songs.” But even such an idyllic story wasn’t meant to last forever.
When Fate Gave Her A Second Chance At Love
His name was Keith Urban — an Australian country musician, multiple Grammy winner, and a man who had battled alcoholism and dr*g addiction for years, TMZ reported.

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He wasn’t your typical Hollywood heartthrob, nor did he flaunt his fame. But he had something Nicole had long been missing — warmth and sincerity...
Love At First Sight?
They met in January 2005 at an event honoring successful Australians in Hollywood. Nicole later recalled that evening with a smile, Daily Mail wrote.

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She said: “I walked into a room full of strangers. I felt lonely, and then I saw him. And I immediately knew — this is the man I want to spend my life with.”
They Took Their Time
After a short conversation, Nicole gathered the courage to give him her phone number. But the call didn’t come for several months. When he finally reached out, she had almost given up hope.
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Their first date took place in Central Park — they walked, talked about the sea, music, and life in Australia. And that’s how it all began...
A Simple Life In Nashville
Despite the slow start, their relationship quickly deepened. Within a year, Nicole and Keith made their first public appearance together. As Daily Mail reported, Keith never felt insecure about Nicole being taller or more famous — he was proud of her.

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In 2006, the couple appeared at the Grammy Awards — and the world gasped: there was an engagement ring on Kidman’s finger!
A Beautiful Wedding
Just a few months later, on June 25, 2006, they were married in Sydney. The wedding was intimate and emotional. The bride wore an ivory gown by Balenciaga, the groom — a classic black suit with a white rose.

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Around 250 guests attended, though Tom Cruise, despite receiving an invitation, did not.
Late Motherhood When All Hope Was Lost
Two years after the wedding, in 2008, the couple welcomed their first daughter, Sunday Rose. For Nicole, it was a truly special moment: at 41, she became a biological mother for the first time, defying years of rumors about infertility. Two years later, their second daughter, Faith Margaret, was born via surrogate.

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The family lived in Nashville — far from Hollywood’s chaos. As TMZ wrote, Nicole and Keith tried to raise their children in simplicity, without cameras or luxury. They walked the streets without bodyguards, went to church, and spent cozy family evenings with music. But it seems those days are now in the past...
A New Image After The Split?
After her split from musician Keith Urban, Nicole Kidman seemed to blossom again. At the Chanel show in Paris, she appeared with a fresh new look — soft curls, a light 70s-style fringe, and natural makeup in nude tones.
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Fans immediately noticed: Nicole looked calm and genuinely happy! Even more touching — she was accompanied by her beautiful daughters, who seemed to be her greatest support.
A New Chapter In Her Life
The divorce, after almost two decades of marriage, was reportedly a difficult yet liberating chapter for the actress. “She’s focused on her future, her work, and her daughters. Nicole doesn’t want to live in the past — she’s moving forward,” a source close to the star told People.

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As People also quoted her saying, “I believe that every ending is just the beginning of something new.” And it truly seems that right now, for Nicole Kidman, a bright new chapter has begun.